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Non-porn Routes to Arousal


Over the last three days, my delicious Keys to the Kingdom client and I have been on a secluded retreat near Cambridge. We've been delving deep into all sorts of subjects around pleasure and sexual arousal.


Part of his journey is to move away from a dependence on porn for arousal, and to not only choose new routes to arousal, but to also choose when, if and how he ejaculates. Most men aren't aware that there are choices - lots and lots of choices. More on that another time.


Here is our growing list of non-porn routes to arousal:


Breath - your own or someone else's

Energy

Breath and energy

PC squeezes

Hip tilts or thrusts

Love, opening your heart, heart breaths

YES! - say it, shout it, feel it, move it through your body

Relaxation

Pain

Jacuzzi jets

Role play

Partner, lover, booty call, spouse, girl/boy friend

Threesomes, foursomes and moresomes

Kinky things 

Impact play

Sensory deprivation

Sensory play

Sensual play

Inflatable toys

Masturbation - with hands, with energy, with toys

Food - sensual eating, aphrodisiacs

Dancing

Movement

Stroking

Caressing

Biting

Scratching

Flirting

Kissing

Sucking

Licking

Tickling

Teasing

Taking

Hair pulling

Writing erotic stories

Reading erotic stories

Temperature play

Listening to erotic sounds

Making erotic sounds

Material - rubber, leather, PVC, etc

Hot or cold showers

Prostate play

Discovering which body parts are arousing to you

Sexy talk

Lube and/or oil

Baths and showers

Scents

Striptease

Toys

Electric stim

Nipple play

Restraint

Rope play

Lips

Massage

Ass play

Fantasy

CBT

Cock rings

Dominance

Submission


Which of these things really work for you?


What would you add to the list?

Want to explore routes to arousal with me?


Contact me here or email me at rebecca@self-alchemy.com and tell me what you're interested in.


I look forward to exploring with you!

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